{"id":14,"date":"2003-02-14T15:25:40","date_gmt":"2003-02-14T19:25:40","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lopeyland.com\/?p=14"},"modified":"2006-06-27T19:43:46","modified_gmt":"2006-06-27T23:43:46","slug":"a-note-and-a-thought-for-today","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lopeyland.com\/?p=14","title":{"rendered":"A note and a thought for today"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>NOTE: While some weblogs may update daily, I&#8217;m going to limit it to at least twice a week. This is because quality matters to me, and I&#8217;d rather write decent stuff than mindless filler (note: some people would say the entire thing is mindless filler, YMMV).<\/p>\n<p>Today is Valentine&#8217;s day. It also marks the 9.5 year anniversary for Laureen and me. Believe it or not, our wedding date was chosen for two reasons:<br \/>\n1. It was inbetween our birthdays, so we would technically be the same age when we married.<br \/>\n2. It had a cool half-anniversary.<\/p>\n<p>Our relationship isn&#8217;t perfect&#8211;no relationship is. But it&#8217;s the only one I&#8217;d choose to be in, no matter what has happened or is yet to happen. We&#8217;ve been through all sorts of drama &#8212; health issues, mental health issues, moving into a house, losing jobs, finding new ones&#8230;. About the only goal that is left is to have kids, and I&#8217;m just not quite yet sure when that will happen. We get told a lot that we would be great parents, but I don&#8217;t know. I have the typical pre-parental attitude toward children I see (and tell me if you didn&#8217;t say this once or twice before you had kids): &#8220;My child isn&#8217;t going to behave like that.&#8221; &#8220;We&#8217;ll do that better.&#8221; &#8220;We&#8217;ll just chain them to the bed and things will be okay.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Well, maybe not that last one.<\/p>\n<p>(Time period of 2.5 hours elapses as Kevin struggles to get &#8220;real work&#8221; done.)<\/p>\n<p>Thought: do most women plan on wearing something red on Valentine&#8217;s day? Or is it a wake-up morning realization that &#8220;oh, red would fit the day.&#8221; The interesting argument that I was involved in revolved around that women may indeed be wearing red clothing, but it&#8217;s just not a visible layer&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Sigh.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>NOTE: While some weblogs may update daily, I&#8217;m going to limit it to at least twice a week. This is because quality matters to me, and I&#8217;d rather write decent stuff than mindless filler (note: some people would say the entire thing is mindless filler, YMMV). Today is Valentine&#8217;s day. It also marks the 9.5 &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/lopeyland.com\/?p=14\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;A note and a thought for today&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[11],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-14","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-humor","entry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lopeyland.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lopeyland.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lopeyland.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lopeyland.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lopeyland.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=14"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/lopeyland.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lopeyland.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=14"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lopeyland.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=14"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lopeyland.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=14"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}