{"id":799,"date":"2012-04-01T22:13:47","date_gmt":"2012-04-02T03:13:47","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lopeyland.com\/?p=799"},"modified":"2012-04-01T22:13:47","modified_gmt":"2012-04-02T03:13:47","slug":"it-wasnt-supposed-to-end-like-this","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lopeyland.com\/?p=799","title":{"rendered":"It wasn&#8217;t supposed to end like this"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>We were supposed to get together and play board games some weekend. It&#8217;d been a long time since we&#8217;d actually seen each other, but because our mutual friends had events, we kept on bumping into one another. And now I&#8217;m reminded of the times we had together&#8211;the disastrous cancelled ski vacation that we salvaged, doing stuff with the youth, all of those times. <\/p>\n<p>And now, you&#8217;re gone. <\/p>\n<p>I was there for some of those grand mal seizures. I remember how scary they were and always wondering what I needed to do to make sure you were okay. And then, just a few weeks after we&#8217;d talked about board games and kids and other little life points, another seizure takes you away, not just from me, but from your wife and children, leaving a hole that will be empty for a good long while.<\/p>\n<p>Yes, I know that God has a plan, but that doesn&#8217;t mean I understand it, and it certainly doesn&#8217;t mean I&#8217;m happy about it. Tonight, I grieve.<\/p>\n<p>In memory of Mark Fowler, a good man.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>We were supposed to get together and play board games some weekend. It&#8217;d been a long time since we&#8217;d actually seen each other, but because our mutual friends had events, we kept on bumping into one another. And now I&#8217;m reminded of the times we had together&#8211;the disastrous cancelled ski vacation that we salvaged, doing &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/lopeyland.com\/?p=799\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;It wasn&#8217;t supposed to end like this&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-799","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized","entry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lopeyland.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/799","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lopeyland.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lopeyland.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lopeyland.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lopeyland.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=799"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/lopeyland.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/799\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":800,"href":"https:\/\/lopeyland.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/799\/revisions\/800"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lopeyland.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=799"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lopeyland.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=799"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lopeyland.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=799"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}