{"id":807,"date":"2012-09-20T13:37:24","date_gmt":"2012-09-20T18:37:24","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lopeyland.com\/?p=807"},"modified":"2012-09-20T13:37:24","modified_gmt":"2012-09-20T18:37:24","slug":"catching-up-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lopeyland.com\/?p=807","title":{"rendered":"Catching up"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>It&#8217;s been a while since I&#8217;ve written; life has been busy. The basics:<br \/>\nJacob&#8217;s in third grade. Jessie&#8217;s in first.<br \/>\nLaureen&#8217;s teaching again.<br \/>\nI&#8217;m on loan to TI, working in their OMAP processor group.<\/p>\n<p>Over the summer, we went to Ruidoso, New Mexico. We also acquired a dog, a Carolina dog named Creek. Her full name is &#8220;Little Running Creek&#8221;, but it should be &#8220;Little Running Creek Roll in Poop Attention Hog&#8221;. She reminds me so much of our previous dog it&#8217;s scary. And I miss Chewie. <\/p>\n<p>Jacob&#8217;s in soccer with the same bunch as last year. We&#8217;re actually undefeated as of this writing. Jacob plays forward, midfield, and sweeper, which apparently is the defender who deals with everything that gets by other people. <\/p>\n<p>After much thought and prayer, we made a decision to open our home to a single mom and her two kids. Yes. Every single person that I know has told me that I&#8217;m either crazy or a better person than they are, and I&#8217;ll be the first to admit that this hasn&#8217;t been easy. We have two kids who need lots of attention, we&#8217;re trying to be the safety net for the family while the mom reestablishes her business, and all sorts of other details. We&#8217;re trying really hard not to lose our own kids in that maw, because they&#8217;re bearing a bigger cost than we are. Jacob and Jessie are sharing a room (we got them bunk beds), and soon we&#8217;re going to have a play loft constructed for Jacob so he has a place to play Legos.<\/p>\n<p>But it&#8217;s hard. So, so hard. I love both of the girls living with us, but the 12-year old needs a father figure in the worst way. She had one, and&#8230; stuff happened. The 6 year old operates a lot of the time like a toddler does. I&#8217;m not saying this to be mean, but her behavior is &#8220;what&#8217;s mine is mine, what&#8217;s yours is mine&#8221;, and she has always been able to get her way by throwing a tantrum at the slightest provocation. <\/p>\n<p>That dog don&#8217;t hunt around our place, so it&#8217;s a battle. &#8220;Please clear your placemat,&#8221; &#8220;please pick up your toys,&#8221; &#8220;please turn out the lights,&#8221; and on and on.<\/p>\n<p>Despite it all, I have some peace about this; there&#8217;s more people to help around the house, and the garage is getting organized (shocker). <\/p>\n<p>Right now, I&#8217;m in Phoenix, spending some time at a convention of online gamers. Yes, it sounds ridiculous. And I agree, it is. But these are my friends.<\/p>\n<p>Anyway, enough for now. Time to move ahead.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It&#8217;s been a while since I&#8217;ve written; life has been busy. The basics: Jacob&#8217;s in third grade. Jessie&#8217;s in first. Laureen&#8217;s teaching again. I&#8217;m on loan to TI, working in their OMAP processor group. Over the summer, we went to Ruidoso, New Mexico. We also acquired a dog, a Carolina dog named Creek. Her full &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/lopeyland.com\/?p=807\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;Catching up&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-807","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized","entry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lopeyland.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/807","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lopeyland.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lopeyland.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lopeyland.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lopeyland.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=807"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/lopeyland.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/807\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":809,"href":"https:\/\/lopeyland.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/807\/revisions\/809"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lopeyland.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=807"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lopeyland.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=807"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lopeyland.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=807"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}