Another subject on Disciples and Heritage

So where should they go?

When mom and dad came over Sunday, they brought with them a letter from Rockwood Christian Church that basically stated their reasons for dropping from the larger Christian Church (Disciples of Christ) and becoming a Disciples Heritage church. One of the reasons stated was that the TBA (Trinity Brazos Area) had voted to allow a congregation that was primarily composed of gay worshippers into their area. Regardless or not if that was the final straw, the issue of homosexuality is a dividing issue for disciples heritage churches.

Well, our family talked about it some, and Jim made the point that he doesn’t have a problem with gay/lesbian people coming to church, it’s that it shouldn’t be recognized by a larger body.

We went round and round on the scriptural interpretation of it. Here’s a link with more details on the debate.

But my big question is, where should these people go to find God? If indeed what they are doing is sinful, then they’ll never be accepted for who they are at any church in the nation. I guess the key word is acceptance. Conservatives won’t, and liberals (like me, I guess) will.

I’m sorry. It’s still a hot-button issue for me. I have friends (who work in churches, gasp) who are gay. My uncle died directly as a result of being gay. I can’t put those feelings aside and condemn people’s behavior. That’s God’s job, not mine.

Everything changes, yet…

Everything changes, yet…

First off, happy birthday, bro. For all the crap you’ve had to put up with and still succeed, I admire you.

We signed 4 inches worth of papers today. What was House Jones will become House Richey, and what was House Taylor will become the new House Jones. I wonder why I’m using Dune terminology all of a sudden…

We’re moving. Approximately 1/4 mile away, yet still in the same neighborhood. To a house with a backyard. And stuff in the backyard. And 200 more square feet of space.

And we’re leaving a house of regret. Regret that we didn’t take better care of it. Regret that we didn’t do things when we should have. In short, it’s a first house.

My goodness how time flies. I remember moving in here, when I worked at…BNR, still? And Laureen worked at EDS as a secretary in their Health Care Consulting division, under Bill…. one of the Iranian hostages that Perot rescued. Can’t remember his last name. I remember the McGowans, Rosemary and Monte. We bought the house from them. Monte was kind enough to give us some 5 mil plastic sheeting to use when we repainted the peach wall…

Oh my goodness, the 18-foot, how-in-the-world-are-we-going-to-paint-that peach wall that sits behind me right now as I tap this out. Jacob’s asleep, or at least working toward or away from it. Laureen’s either asleep or with Jacob, and I’m down here, just finally letting some things pour out of my head. There’s the music from the CD player in Jacob’s room. She’s in with him, helping him resettle.

No, actually, she wasn’t. He found the remote. Somehow. And turned the CD player on and hit play…
My son is 18 months old, and his capacity to learn things scares me. How in the world am I going to keep his mind occupied?

So much has changed. We’re giving excess furniture away to a family affected by Katrina. We have another child on the way. We’re trying to be better people, because we have a little person totally dependent on us, although in his eyes we’re just the big people to be led where he wants us to go.

I’m going to really miss my current neighbors. Bonnie on one side and the Umanas on the other. Randall Umana is the reason I can claim two degrees of separation to Harriet Miers, not that that matters now. Fortunately, they’re close enough that visits will be easy.

And I guess it’s time to drag myself off to sleep for one of the few remaining times in this house.

Good night, moon. Good night cow jumping over the moon. Good night light and the red balloon. Good night bears, good night chairs…

Another entry from the really tired

Another entry from the land of the really sleepy

Well, we close Friday on the houses. We then turn into renters, albeit for free for about a month.

Right now, I can’t bring myself to do work. I’m coming down with a cold, and it’s proceeding to kick me in the proverbial teeth. I’m pretty sure I have a fever, a sore throat, and just general misery, but work doesn’t stop, especially since this is another hard week. We’re trying to release a new version of software to the market, but it’s not going particularly easily, mostly due to the scope of changes made from the prior version. Of course, we have to get this version out. Have to. Our revenue targets for the year (and the company’s growth) pretty much depend on it.

We’ve started the big “pack everything” push. Laureen’s taking the lead on it, thank God. I don’t think I have the brain cells or at least the energy today to do it.

Tired of giving?

Tired of giving?

I wanted to explore something that’s been going on in my head for a while. I was wondering if we as a country are tired of giving to causes by now. We had Hurricane Katrina, then Hurricane Rita. There’s also a ton of smaller-scale things that want/need money to survive (Crop Walk was this past week, did you contribute to a walker?), but I’m wondering if we’re just not tired of it yet. We’ve had the massive concerts already, we’ve had the massive efforts by faith-based organizations (who have to do the work because the federal government is completely inept at that good old “we the people” concept of “promote the general welfare” and “secure the blessings of liberty”), and we’ve had the local efforts of many, many people, some who just may not have more to give.

I know it’s Biblical to give, but does the Bible ever address when you give too much? The rich man was counseled to sell all of his possessions and give the money to the poor. How would that happen in our lives today?

I ask this while staring at the SECOND fund-raiser from Zion Lutheran School in Dallas, where Laureen teaches and Jacob goes. They’re selling passbooks. Joy. This isn’t the school, though; it’s the booster club. If you’re asking what the difference is, so am I.

A call to remove Comp-USA from every logical buyer’s list of places to shop

A call to remove COMP-USA from every logical buyer’s list of places to shop

Normally, I’d like to think of myself as a reasonable person. I don’t drive too fast. I understand that “fair” doesn’t just refer to the annual event in Dallas. Yada yada and yada. However, my experience with COMP-USA today has left me wondering how such a corporation can survive except by preying on the weak, weak-minded, or weak-willed.

My rationale for going into the store was that today was the release day for the sequel to “that rolling ball game”: We Love Katamari hit the shelves today. I checked some local stores, and the closest Best Buys and Circuit Cities were sold out of the game. COMP-USA had it for $1 more, but to save me the trouble of driving 30 extra minutes to find the game, I would gladly pay the extra buck. So I go over there. I walk in the door, and the lady at the customer service desk greets me. I walk past a knot of three sales associates. One of them greets me. I head over to the PS-2 games area. It’s a disorganized mess. The games are in haphazard, seemingly random order. There are empty spaces in the mix, indicating that someone must have had a plan for them. I don’t see the game anywhere, so I walk over to the cashier who is standing behind his register, looking a little bit lost in a fog. I ask him for some help and he replies that his computer is down, so there’s no way he could search for it, but he’ll call someone to come help.

First off, if he’s working AT A REGISTER where THE COMPUTER DOESN’T WORK at a COMPUTER RETAILER, don’t you think his first priority instead of standing there solipsizing for days of long ago would be to get someone there to FIX THE MACHINE THAT GENERATES REVENUE FOR THE COMPANY?

He calls someone, and a rather young gentleman, much, much younger than myself (but not one of the three associates who were holding court in the center of the store previously (and have since disappeared, scared off by the possibility of actual interaction with a customer)) comes up and asks me if I need help. I inquire about the game. He asks me to repeat the name, then he goes off somewhere. I look at some other stuff, and a few minutes later he comes back and tells me that “the computer says it’s sold out and we don’t have any.” I ask him where it would be in the aisle, and he says “well, if we had it, it would be in this aisle somewhere.” I then ask why it isn’t organized. He replies that yeah, they could organize it, but then every time a new game came in, they’d have to reorganize it again.

What a novel thought. Working at your place of employment, even if it is somewhat pointless and fruitless and will have to be done again and again. There are some jobs in the world where the tasks are Sisyphean by design — the streets will start getting dirty the second after the sweeper passes by, and the trash truck comes every week. But that doesn’t mean the work doesn’t need to be done, and the fact that it isn’t your store doesn’t mean you can’t propose it or do it yourself. Initiative is a good thing.
Even organize the blasted games by genre, for crying out loud. But alas, all good ideas fall victim to the dreaded Not My Job.

In contrast, I took the extra time and drove to a Best Buy that was reported as having copies on the web. I was approached within 30 seconds of being in the aisle. The sales clerk looked it up on the computer and said they didn’t show anything. I asked him to please check again under the title of the game. He checks, and 8 copies magically appear in their inventory. He apologizes for not checking that way first, goes off to the back of the store, and five minutes later, I have my game at the slightly cheaper price. w00t.

If we don’t support the beast, it will eventually wither away.

Mom’s doing much better, by the way. She gets an extra day in the hospital since her blood pressure is still low. Grandma and Francis are going on their trip to Phoenix for Cousin Andy’s wedding. I still need to send a gift…